It has been far too normalized that the guy will make the first move, but the ladies shouldn’t be scared to “shoot their shot!”

I think a lot of people forget that guys have insecurities too, even if they don’t vocalize it. There are guys out there, just like some of us women, that fear rejection and maybe think that they don’t have a chance with the pretty woman on the other end of the bar.

That’s why it is more than ok for a woman to make the first move.

I mean, sure, it would be nice to have it the other way around, but sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands and see if a guy might be interested. 

That is, if you’re interested in him. 

 A woman by the name of Taryn cracked the code this week when she tweeted out the secret to scoring a date in Buffalo. 

One person commented, “She's not just a queen for the absolute baller gesture, she's a queen because she used one of the appropriate terms for wings.”

It seems like sending wings to a guy in a bar is better than any pick-up line in Buffalo, and it’s been working for Taryn.

Turns out, you really don’t need words to break the ice…just chicken wings!

Next time you’re at a loss for words as a result of the cute guy in the bar, send some wings over and make sure the server tells him it’s from you.

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